Your first time

This is the page to turn to if you've never had sex before, and want some guidance to how you
should behave under these circumstances. The first time, is very different from person to person. Some experience their first time as something very special, and create a very special bond to their partner which will never be broken. Others, find that their first time wasn't special at all, but they are glad they finally get to do it. In both cases however, sex is good, there is no doubt about that. Some people are just more emotional than others, and sometimes, love is involved very much. So it depends a lot on how much you love the person you're having your 
first intercourse with. 

It should without a doubt be noted that your first time will effectively influence the way you look at sex, and in what circumstances you have sex in the future. So both the will to explore, and the thought of being cautious should be used when approaching your partner naked for the first time. If you already haven't, you should now start thinking about questions like: Is this too early for me, and if it is, am I proud of rushing into something that may be better later on? What will my friends say? And yes, ask yourself this too: Is this person beautiful? Do I love this person?

Protection?

Most importantly of all. have you thought about protection? We shouldn't have to tell you this, and
if you already have a rule about using protection that is fine. Congratulations. But to those of you who don't use 
protection, there are many dangers lurking about. Sexual diseases and viruses of every sort,
and the risk of getting pregnant is always there if some form of protection is not used. (Consult any doctor for further details.) 

Also, you should respect your partner as much that you both talk about protection before intercourse. Do it in such a manner that you
"talk about the serious bit, before you start playing around":)

If you are a girl: Having sex is not as good, if you know you don't want to get pregnant, and both 
you or him ain't using any. 

If you are a guy: Be ashamed! It is easier for you to use a condom than it is for her to use something else. Every country with some self respect sells condoms in these days, yes, also in conventional stores. So it ain't too much effort to have a condom handy when you know that sex may occur in the VERY near future.

Sexual Diseases

If you are a carrier of any sexual disease it is your duty to see and consult a doctor before any intercourse is to be had. This goes without saying, but we mention it here because it is very important. Even today, with all the warnings about AIDS being added on TV, radio, and deaths polls given out on the newspapers around the world. People are still dying because of AIDS. For your own sake, and for the sake of others, please consult a doctor for a cure, before it is too late.

If you know you aren't a carrier, how can you be so sure?
It is the responsibility of every person who know they have sex on a regular basis, even with protection, to see a doctor once in a while for sexual diseases. This way, you know you don't have any problems whatsoever, and can
go about your own business without having to worry about diseases of any sort. 

If you know this, then sex is for you. There is nothing wrong with having sex. There are some cultures, and some religions that limit sex slightly. For instance, in christian belief, you should only have sex with your partner after marriage. But if you have a religion you worship, you know the rules better than we do. 

Sex readyness test

are there people in the world that sex is NOT for? 

Yes, there is. Of course, what you do to yourself in the privacy of your own home is your business. There will hopefully never be a rule that limits sexual privacy. Lets show this in a helpful diagram that will help you find if
you are fit and well mentally for sex. Firstly, see below for what attracts you sexually, then see if are mentally ill.
 
 
 

If you found yourself under yes, it means that you need some sort of help whether it be an institute or just a 
shrink. But please get help, before somebody who don't deserve it, or somebody you love get hurt.