* This is the position which is the most common in sexual intercourse, where the man is on top, and the woman is underneath. This is a good position to start practising sex on, since this is the basic position. What makes this position most popular is not only because it comes most natural, but it is also a very intimate position for the couple involved. There are many variations to this position. The female can adjust her legs slightly to increase penetration quality, or relax them down to.... relax. 

* Since both are facing each other, intimate kissing is optional. You might laugh at this, but this is the most relaxing position in which both people are facing each other, and therefore kissing is an option that can be done with ease without so much breathing, and pouting. Kissing is very important for some, and this makes this position excellent in many cases. But we do not recommend kissing when the more intence part of the intercourse has 
begun. 

* The man has the option to fondle much of the woman's body without so much stress. Fooling around and experimenting on this area, can easily build the tension as much as intercourse can, and every female has a point on her body that loves extra attention. Try to find this(these) point(s). 

* To pack even more punch to this position, why not try a pillow under the females bottom? This gives a lot more
tension to each thrust, and makes for a more intense experience. Some find this stupid and unnatural though, so it's all up to you. 

* Why not whisper something in your partners ear? Be honest, but direct. Find your own style here, saying the same stuff as they
do in the porn films might be a turn on for some, but is not recommended in the long run. 

Try, and experiment on what suits you both best:)

OK, other than this, there are a thousand variations to this position. The A-wing, the polly-panther, starfish, "laugh"
yes, a whole bunch of crazy names. To mention them all is something we don't bother to do.
But what we will do, is mention the most discussed oneswith expressions you will understand, and explain these further. 

Sexual Massage:

This is normal massage, except here you don't have any clothes on, and you use oils for spice (and if you wish
spanking, for even more spice.) What seems to be the general idea about massaging, is that as long as you have 
the imagination going for you, you've already come a long way. 

Experiment a little, try different things. Some like massaging on their feet, others like their backs massaged. 
While some just like a bunch of stuff, like say, face massaging, neck, arms, legs, stomach, heck you name it.
Here are the secrets though, to a really good sexual massage (maybe you'll even give your partner an orgasm if you do it right.)

Change tempo/ pressure:
This is very important. Don't let your partner get bored. It's better to just have sex then. Change tempo from 
slow, tender, and gentle, to fast, furious, and firm. This, makes the massage exciting. If you think this sounds complicated, just tell yourself this: "Your partner should never know what you'll do next." But also, make sure you are having fun. If you are working up a sweat just to make your partner happy, better stop while going's good.

Use oils:
Oils make a massage even more exciting. You MUST NOT confuse these oils with health oils. There are oils with vitamin C's, and D's and whatever for the skin, and there are massage oils which are more designed for fun. 
Pick an oil that has a nice fragrance, but be sure that your partner isn't allergic to perfumes. Also make sure that, 
even though it's an oil just for pleasure, it should also be gentle to the skin. So buy an oil that is expensive. Going to a place like "Body shop" is great! They are  expencive, but they have gotten many prizes for their products which haven't been tested on animals, and so forth. 
It has also been prooven that Body Shop's products does what is on the label. This is not meant as a commercial, but an example of a place were 
you should visit for oils or other sexual products, if you mean business. 

Talk:
Hearing your voice can be quite seductive. If you have heard your partner comment your voice, why not use it?
So talk sweet, while you massage your partner. Tell your partner nice things, in this case about your partners body and see what happens. If you get no response, stop talking.. If you get a "mm" then you are on the right track. If you get this
response "yes I do don't I?" Well, to say it mildly, I'd stop it right there and go watch some telly or something:)
Sheesh!

Massaging with your feet:
Try a variation: Instead of using your hands, use your feet. Be playful, it works just as well. Using your feet gets more clumbsy, but some actually get a wild turn on by this type of intimacy 

Spanking:
This is something that shouldn't be misunderstood. Spanking, is not violence. If you think of it that way, better 
look again, or read a book about the subject. While spanking (we can't tell you how hard you should do this, just don't overdo it.) talk to your partner. Talking dirty actually works quite well, since spanking is dirty. Telling your partner that you love her/him, that's the way to go here. But of course, there are no limits here either. 

Urination:
Yes, we have that too here. It works for some people. There isn't anything to explain here, just consider doing
this somewhere, were it is easy to clean up after. Let's say in the shower?
Both should know what this means; actually peeing on your partner, and if you both find this appealing or appalling.

 
 

Having sex standing up:

Ok, this one is difficult, and there is one important thing to remember: Some couples will never get this one to work. Since it requires you be of the same height for one, and a little bit of athleticism. It is very important that the female doesn't spread her legs, but shut them. A moisturizer might come in handy here. 

Or, if you are very in a hurry, do it the same way, but this time let the man hold the woman's legs up. 
This position is very good, but requires some practice. It ain't as easy as it looks in the movies I guess. 
Don't try this position if the female has a very private relationship to her own weight. 

Anal Sex:

Many men find this one appealing, and some girls find this one appealing too. The reason why some girls hate thisk 
kind of  sex, is because they haven't given it much a chance, or they was with the wrong person when trying it. 
Hmm, have you ever wondered why the word "asshole" for men was invented?

If the girl doesn't want anal sex at all though, don't force her. Analsex is by all means more mental than physical. 
Remember, any anal opening in history was never made for sex. So it is more the thought of analsex, than the
actual act that turns us on. 

If you both agree on having anal sex, you should both have patience. 
Both should be ready for this, since this is something a little bit different than the normal sex. 
It isn't just one, two, three, and there you go, it takes time, and doesn't always happen instantly. 
Have a condom that's built for anal sex, and a moisturizer. It is important to note, that the vagina is made for sex. 
The back end isn't. So a moisturizer is a must have or else, it is going to hurt. The best position for anal sex is 
were the female is sitting, not laying down. But try laying down first, since the sitting position requires some trust, 
and a relationship foundation.

If you haven't been together a long time, either as lovers, or as something more, you shouldn't try 
anal sex first. 

Aural sex:

Women: 
Be gentle, it ain't a lollipop. Don't bite. Licking, sucking, kissing, yes, everything works. Take your time, and it will happen sooner or later. If you're disgusted by aural sex, don't do it. If your partner tells you to 
do it, leave him. 
 

Men:
Play around, try different things. But also here, be a little gentle. Try massaging her feet while doing this, 
the effect will double then. There are fewer men that are disgusted by this, but if you are, don't do it. 
If your partner stinks down there, you shouldn't be afraid to tell her. Don't tell her she stinks though, 
that ain't smart, nor a compliment. 

If your partner likes anal sex, why not try aural sex on your partners bottom? But of course, also here:
Make sure your partner is clean. Use your nose, it works. 

 
 

Wet sex:

Not going to say too much here, but it involves urination and sex at the same time.