TIPS:
 
 

Use candles:

Candles are romantic, and creates a nice atmosphere before sex. Normal electric lights are NOT romantic. 
Some use lights that are coloured red. This isn't the solution, since it gives away your desperate intent. Candles are innocent, tender, and to the point. 

If you are going to use candles, use many of them. One candle never does it alone. But a dozen candles, do the job nicely. Just make sure you have a window open. Many candles kills oxygen quickly. NEVER think of placing candles near flammable material, and  for Gods sake, keep your candles away from perfumes and other toxins. Many candles and perfumes together is a ticking bomb, believe us. 
Candles close together create a very heated atmosphere that chemicals easily react to. So keep easily flammable 
perfumes in the bathroom, unless you want a "boom boom boom in your room situation."

 
 

Use flowers:

Nothing is more beautiful, or romantic than a bedroom covered with flowers. Flowers are romantic, and are a symbol of a healthy relationship, and a rich sex life. So flowers really do the job nicely. It is well known that flowers make a gift, but why not use them for decoration as well.

Flowers communicate with the rooms atmosphere, and some flowers actually create better conditions for sex. 
Roses for instance create a fragrance, that decreases the killing of beta-endorphins cells in your brain. These cells
are the cells that create the feeling of being in love. While for instance lilies help clean the air, and have a calm fragrance that is very effective against stress, making perfect conditions for sex. 

Tease:

Did you think only girls can tease? Did you think it's always the male who should give in to sex? You were wrong.
Say something like: "Who'll give in last hammy?" Yes, it's childish, but if we can't communicate with our child, 
we'll become black and white boring people. The humour will also fade away with time. So try this idea out, it will work. Try teasing your partner with sexy underwear (ok, in this case use your own imagination. Some nice socks, a tie, and maybe, hmm, some colourful boxer shorts hmm. But clothes ain't everything, there's more:

Food:
Yes, food, is excellent for a teaser. Instead of having sex right away, why not dine beside a very little table, a couple of candles, and pasta? Food fragrances is enough to create a cosy atmosphere. Want to increase the 
pressure on each other? Dine with only your underwear, and socks on. Cover all hot spots like feed, breasts, sexual organs, and if you can, your hands. 

Fruit:
Have you seen Hot Shots? If you have, you probably know what to do. I wouldn't attempt the egg scene though:)
Believe me, your partner ain't that hot.(See the movie, and you'll understand this comment.) 
Fruit is excellent for the mood. Fruit contains vitamins and other things that people need that also contain sexual boosters. Try mangoes for instance. Excellent fruit: Moist, wet, delicious, and very, very good for increased lust. 

Water:
Water isn't any sexual booster. Nor is it a boost on romance. Sex is very energy consuming, and therefore, water is needed to balance all the stuff that happens inside your body. Also, when you exercise sweat comes out, and is your natural cooling system. But in sex, very often, more is needed to cool your body down. Water is excellent for the job. DO NOT drink soda's or other beverages, since these drinks contain too much sugar, and will only exhaust you. The same goes for energy drinks. These drinks only give your body the false security of coolness, and in some cases, can be very dangerous if you are having very intense sex. 

 
 

Music:

You can try every music style you wish, but the quiet kind works best. The best way to get this quiet form of music, is going to a store where people have some knowledge about what they sell to people. Know that Jarre
makes very good electronic new age music, but is no steamer. Vangelis is better if you choose the right CD. 
Or, you can visit mp3.com, and pick out an ambient collection made by mp3.com. 

There is something magical about music, and there can be something magical about sex too, if you have the right partner, and the right mood. Music creates that mood. So the rest will have to be up to you. 

 
 
 

Blindfolds:

A blindfolds or two, is excellent for sex. There is nothing like shutting a sense like sight down to increase sexual intent. Then your partner doesn't know what you are doing. You can do anything. Leave your partner. Let her/him lie there while you get something in the fridge. Ice cubes... You get my drift.
Massaging works better with blindfolds, decreased security is appealing, trust me. 
Spanking works even better with blindfolds. Not to mention music. 

 
 
 
 

Handcuffs/ropes:
 

Handcuffs:
Very good for playing, and also has an affect to increase the probability of an orgasm. 
Handcuffs can now be bought on erotic shops, and as souvenirs on some tourist stores. But although 
handcuffs bought in stores are in no way the same as the police uses, they are still made out of metal. 
This way they are quite uncomfortable. Cover these handcuffs in leather or some kind of fabric to make them
less hard on arms and feet. There is nothing so appalling as handcuffs that make red lines or marks on your partners 
(in this case) arms or feet.

Ropes:
The same with ropes: Don't choose ropes that are hard on the skin. Choose, if you can, the more expensive
silk ropes. Scarfs work well. Buy a lot of scarfs, and then you've got what you need. 
What is good with ropes, is that they are less expensive than the latter, and you can tie up your partner 
quite good. Being tied up can be an "exotic" experience, but again, remember: Make it comfy, yes?
Communicate with your partner if the ropes are too tight. 

 
 
 
 
 
 

TRICKS:
 

One thing is certain: No matter what the media says, (shows,) you don't have to have a body like Britney Spears for people to fancy you, nor do you need to be thin to have sex. 

Now that's that said I can go on with revealing the true tricks to great sex. Please keep the above text in mind when reading though.
 
 

Dance:

YES! You heard us! Dance, and dance often. Not only is this a good workout, but dancing also gives your body 
a great stretch, a throughout workout from a to z, and more stamina. But that is not all. This is far from everything.

It is well known, or should be known, that ancient tribes had sexual rituals on a regular basis. On this regular basis, they danced the night away. But of course, very erotic dancing with boy and girl dancing together. Coincidence you say? Maybe. 

But dancing is our most spiritual form of workout, since you communicate with your body 100%. In sex, if you are doing it right. you should be communicating with your partner 100% But to do this, you have to know your body 100%. Please, no Britney Spears dancing. She does routines. You don't get to know your body by a routine. You'll only look stupid. 
Take our word for it. 

 
 

Relax: 

Take it easy. Stress, is a sex killer. If you have a busy day at work, and can't control the conditions and surroundings to for example finding peace within yourself for a moment, you're going downhill and committing overkill on yourself slowly. 
People visiting massage institutes, visit these because of stress. People who need help to relax, are people
burnt out by a busy life that in the end causes stress. Stress in return causes tumours, headaches, stiffness (and not were it should.) So relax. Women are more natural at relaxing than males. This may have something to do with 
mans dominate history, most males have the most important roles in working society, or quite simply, history 
has made it this way.

But lets change the future shall we. Men, you got to relax more, and take life less seriously. Give women, the important roles, and let the men be the sexual boosters. After all, it's the men that has to perform in bed, the woman just has to lie there. 

Try getting some sleep, and avoid coffee at all costs. Because coffee tells your body that you ain't tired, 
when in fact, you are. Coffee might be good in a working environment. But coffee, kills sex. 

You might think that all this sounds ridiculous, but all this, is pure fact. Taking it easy?

 

Love/Hate:

Without love, sex is flesh against flesh, and the physics that happen in your body.  Nothing more. 
Just having sex with somebody you love just a little, is a HUGE difference to having sex with somebody
you don't love at all. We're not going to talk about love too much here, since sex is compared to love,
just a corn of sand in the desert. So how do you know you are having sex with somebody you love? 
Inner warmth, tension, for women more frequent orgasms, and for men; longer performance. 

If you feel nothing for this person you are having sex with, do you hate this person? 
Love and hate are very related. Very few try having sex with somebody they actually hate. 
But many people think of hate as a terrible word. But why are
inner warmth, tension, for women more frequent orgasms, and for men; longer performance still there?
So love and hate co exists very much sexually. But, disliking a person, is a whole different affair. 
If you are the experimenting type the best way to know you have no emotions for a person, is to have sex with a complete stranger. 

 

Masturbate:

If you don't do it for pleasure, just do it once in a while so you know everything is in working order. Masturbating is the best way to insure a 100% orgasm. So if your partner can give you an equal amount of pleasure than you can to yourself, you are with the right person sexually. 

On the more medical issue, men can check their sperm quality. Of course, to get a full "inspection" you should visit the doctor. But, to do your own research, do this: If it smells a but fishy, you've got great sperm. 
It doesn't have to smell every time, but if you a watery substance coming out that doesn't smell a thing, you might want to consider going to the doctor for a full check up. Stress, drug abuse, not enough sleep, or in some cases depression. Some media's have told us that smoking causes problems sexually. This may be true to smoking drugs, but the tobacco industry causes problems with many things. But smoking will never  inflict your sexlife. If that one is prooved, we may have seen the last proof to kill smoking, but that is a case on another level. 

 

Get Childish:

There really is no boundaries to sex. If you try to be a little in touch with your "inner child" your sex life will get more exciting, There exists
no pointed fingers in the privacy of your own home right? So why not exploit the fact that you and your partner are "home alone".
Play hide and seek, shout a little extra in bed, role-playing? She'll be the nurse, and you'll be the patient (that one's a classic.) 

Although there are a lot of things you can do together, just make sure you tell your partner what you want. Because one shouldn't mix making
love, and just "getting childish." Tell your partner what you want. It's better than going around guessing what's going to happen next. 

 

Bathe Together:

Not just for the fun of it, but also as a rule. The cleaner sex the better. Some smells are nice, but a stink is different. So 
make it a rule early on to be clean. It is all about trusting eachother, and being clean is respect to your partner. 
Show that respect early on. You might take this a bit second hand, but there is nothing more a turn off than a man, 
or even a woman who doesn't do some effort for the sake off hygiene