Women:
 
 
 

Orgasm demise:

Some women, have a very difficult time getting an orgasm with their partner. This is not because they are have one less gene than other women. It's just so. They were born this way. If you are one of these women, I advise you to read on, since the following might tell you a lot about what to do with the problem (and if the problem can't be solved, how to handle it.)
 

(if you love your partner)

Many say that getting an orgasm is very important, and yes, it is. But people can have very good sex without the orgasm. If fact, many people do very good without. An orgasm has necessarily nothing to do with his penis size.
If he is good in bed, than an orgasm is not needed at all. Of course, not to say that trying an orgasm would be a lot of fun. You could try different positions. In fact some women, get an orgasm when having anal sex. So you could try that, or there is always the foreplay. Don't take the "spread your legs wider" comment from your partner. 
Just try different positions. Go to Tips/Tricks for methods of making foreplay a little more exciting. 
Also, as an extra bonus, you should try playing with your partner. Spontaneous sex, is better than planned sex. Actually, if you are having problems  getting an orgasm, it might just be you find your partners sexual policy quite boring. Talk to your partner if he keeps a record when he best wants sex. You should experiment to full effect on what suits YOU best. 

But ok, if you love your partner, but you two can't get in it on in bed, earn him the honesty and respect to not fake your orgasm. Lying is a boomerang. Lying about an orgasm can get quite awkward, and quite serious, since you faking your orgasm all the time will be a terrible 
crush for your partner. Men are like that. Sex is an egotrip for them. You don't have to understand it. But please respect your loved ones feelings by not faking an orgasm. 

(if you don't love your partner.)

This explenation don't take many words. 
This may sound cruel, but if you don't love your partner: Dump him. Penis size is a very delicate discussion, since
many say that penis size isn't important (to protect all men everywhere.) OF COURSE IT IS IMPORTANT!
If your partner's little willie doesn't satisfy you, dump the poor man, and find a more suitable penis.. eh, man.
But please, don't tell him he is lousy in bed, just blame it on love or somehing. All men fall for that one. Also, again don't fake your orgasm. 
If you feel sorry for him, get out of the relationship as soon as possible!
 

Dry down below?

No problem. Moisturizers can be bought in all respectable stores everywhere. So just splash on some, and you're ready to go. Sometimes, foreplay ain't an option, and a little foreplay is needed to get the vagina wet. 
Other times, it doesn't get wet at all. No worries, nothing wrong with you, sometimes the vagina has a mind of it's own. But that shouldn't stop you from having sex. Better to use moisturizers than to get wounds on your vagina, which in turn increases the chances of diseases. 
 

Orgasm leakage problem:

Some women don't get an orgasm, others say that their orgasm is too much for them. They say that while having their orgasm, they pee on their partners sheets. But this ain't urine. An orgasm is actually a liquid that comes out of the vagina when activated, and this liquid is not urine. So you should not be embarrassed by this. You should rather consider yourself lucky to have a partner that can give you such an intense orgasm. Some will actually envy you. If you feel this sensation next time, just give in to the sensation and be yourself. If your partner complains when everything happens for you at the same time, take him to this text, and he'll understand. Or, there is always the "dump" sollution which works best. 
So if you have a good relationship with your lover, you are on cloud 7. 
 

Don't want sex?

You don't want sex, plain and simple. A "no" should be enough. 
 

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Men:

Erection demise

Women should read this, since the following text helps you to understand what causes this problem. 
To not have an erection in front of a beautiful woman that there is nothing wrong with, is, the most embarrassing thing
a man can endure. This problem makes a man VERY vulnerable, and can affect a man's reputation, and image. 
But most importantly: Not having an erection when should, is destruction to self esteem, which is very important for recreation, and self development. 

(if you love your partner)

We're going to try to explain the problem as simple as possible, since the problems that this causes are far more complex, than the actual happening. 
It is NOTHING wrong with you, nor the woman you are with. You are not gay. No offence to gay people, but this is many peoples first reaction to what's wrong with them. 
Quite simply: Your penis, has have it's own mind of what is nice, and what is not so nice. You might think this girl rules, but your penis does not. So what do you do?
If your girl really loves you, she will give you time to handle the problem. Sometimes it is just the matter of getting 
enough time to getting used to your partner naked, and taking enough time to foreplay. Fooling around with a condom, when you're having erection problems is out of the question. It will be her that will have to have patience, and use some sort of protection. If you know what turns you on, use this to get an erection. 

Tell your girl that you love her, and that she is beautiful. Because many girls will not understand that it is you that is the problem, she will automatically think that it is her that is the problem. It is your job to make her understand that it YOU that need some time, and there is nothing wrong with her at all. 

But know this. There is nothing wrong with you, no matter what the problems that may occur. You may consider leaving your partner if it doesn't work out. Because, Viagra is for old people. NOT for you. That is our opinion anyway. The side effects of Viagra are huge, and in the long run may kill your penis all together. 

(if you don't love your partner)

Leave her as soon as possible. Save your reputation at all costs. A person that doesn't love you will surely ruin you. So please, make sure that your little erection problem will not leak out to her. Get another girl that
you fancy. Because believe me. People YOU pick out, your penis also picks out. It is a fact of life. 
 

Lazy in bed?

Get a grip, work out. A better sex life, leads to a better life. You want your girl to love sex with YOU, don't you?
If you fall asleep, you should seriously consider going to a workout studio, and start a workout routine. 
 

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